The little I know of Grief
The thing about grief is no one is allowed to tell anyone else how to handle it. Some it is a storm where the water keeps coming and nothing can stop it. Some are numb, and others are angry. They say there are stages of grief. But I think we all handle it a bit differently. I know I certainly skipped steps, and I always feel like I have to be strong in front of my kids. They see me get teary eyed and that's about it. They see my anger and frustration at when I lose an animal I have been working hard to make better. But never the ugly sobs where I completely loose it with the frustration of it all. The silly thing to me is I am talking about grief over animals. I Haven't lost anyone close to me since my grandma passed when I was 13 and I am so lucky for that! Fortunate and blessed beyond belief. I cried to god when I lost my Holly. (My dog that I had had since 2012), and now I know it was because I no longer needed her. Her time with me was up. God sent her to me to heal from
